Hello all, I will be working on a new project sometime soon in which I will release the details. As much as I would love to tell everyone’s story, it’s just not physically possible. However, I am looking for people who have went through false allegations where it can be verified through evidence and has already been established through the courts to be false. I will be watching this thread, and I will be picking a few people from the community to participate in this project once I have it completely set up. If you would like to submit your story, please do so below in the comments. Thanks!
I went through over 43+ false allegations. Spent over $700,000 and 11-12 years in family court. Ive been out 1 1/2 years now and have joint custody and no issues since. I also pay child support to a multi-millionaire. I have a bill in the Texas Capitol called "Time Taken Time Back" SB718. Its been a unanimous vote and no opposition. This bill will stop most of the false allegations being used. I was never arrested, jailed or convicted for any of these false accusations.
Robert, I am curious.. with your time taken time back bill, how does it work for extended periods of not seeing your child? For example, if you have not seen your kid for 6 or 12 months due to false allegations...does the father then get 6 or 12 months of sole custody to make up for the time? Or does the father get primary custody over a period of 2 to 3 years to make up for that time over all? And if the father than gets so much extra time that he becomes the primary custodial parent, for at least a period of time, would that impact child support, at least for the period where he becomes the primary custodial parent?
However many days you missed you get all of them back. Also same kind of days. If you missed your x-mas. She will miss her's and so you will get 2 in a row.
Thank you. The sentencing was a joke. The courtroom was packed with supporters wearing white standing with our son, John David Cunningham. The DA belittled and disparaged them, even though they have known John David and his story and some were at the trial. Now he can move forward with motion for new trial and appeal.
My ex filed a false claim of custodial interference with the police. The police subjected me to false arrest, all charges were dropped when it was made clear to the prosecutor that I was a custodial parent and she lied. I sued her for my legal fees in small claims court and won.
Hello, I've had a 2+ year battle in family court. I spoke with you while in Michigan previously. My ex made false claims against me, almost costing me everything. I have since regained some ground, but am still suffering from the fallout.
Our son John David is an alienated dad who went through false allegations and 199 motions in Family Court and the Judge heard all the evidence and ruled he gets to see his children. facing. Then the DA, with no other evidence files 13 counts of Criminal Charges against him of Rape and Sexual Abuse orchestrated by the wife and ex mother in-law. Unbelievably a jury found him guilty in December and he is now facing 250 years in prison for criminal convictions from his Silver Bullet Divorce. This should never have gone to Trial. It is unbelievable and makes no sense how the jury could return with a Guilty verdict. We need to your help to stand with him and help get his life and his children back. This is an outrageous injustice that cannot be tolerated. Please help us expose John David's story. I have detailed timelines and a video interview with more information. I know this may challenge your narrative above, but you need to look at his story.
I wrote down my story in the "tell us your story" section. In summary, I was the victim of domestic violence. It was confirmed by our couples counselors and the forensic evaluator. But the day I moved out, the mother lied to the police and accused me of assault. I was arrested and the chargers were dropped 4 months later. But the mother used it to get primary custody from the court for over 3 years. After a full trial, where I testified for 28 hours about reality, the final court order concluded that she was the perpetrator of domestic violence and that she lied about being the victim of domestic violence. And then I was awarded custody.
Eric, I understand that you will have many stories to choose from. And I can see that many people have had worse experiences than I did. So if you want to include my story, I will help you to do so. But if it doesn't fit into your overall vision for the project, that's OK too. Thanks for doing this!
I also want to add, many practitioners in the family court system ignore fathers and their complaints, saying that "the father is only complaining because he lost". And then they write us off. Well, I won my custody case. And as a "winner", I can tell everybody that the family court system is broken, biased, incompetent, and in need of serious overhaul. So we can throw away that "sore loser's" narrative. I have a laundry list of process changes that the court needs in order to become an organization that actually helps families.
we were married for 10 years. the ex made her 1st false allegation against me in June 2016, the day after I caught her with another man in our marital home. she dropped the restraining order when she got me removed from our home and paying her $50k/year in support.
3 months later she orchestrated the 1st (of 20+) child abuse and molestation claims against me with NJ DCP&P. each complaint and investigation has been closed as unfounded.
the number of complaints the ex has orchestrated against me with New Jersey child services has become so alarming that NJ Department of Children and Families, the parent organization of NJ DCP&P, invited me to join a committee of fathers to help reshape policy.
oh, and the four reunification therapists the ex has asked the court to have ordered on to our case to work with our family have each identified her as "the problem" .
currently waiting for a date from the court to begin our next custody trial.
In the middle of a divorce, she invited me over we were still silver. At this point accuse me of hitting her called. The cops went on trial she lied on the stand. I was proven innocent I was uninvited from weddings, friends parties lost family members over these acquisitions, then the judge in the middle of the divorce proceedings gave her everything I don’t even get my kids on Christmas morning because domestic violence was involved. Only happened after she accuse me of doing drugs and me having to get hair test. I’ve never once had drug issue in my life she knew this, but tried to because the only way to get a unfair divorce is domestic violence or drug abuse, and neither worked but she still got the benefits of all of it. I don’t even get my kids Christmas morning, even though I was proven innocent.
Mine were definitely what I would call soft allegations. Had a full friend of the court investigation with veiled accusations but nothing solid, just enough to make me fear the so called “evidence” they were holding back on me until I agreed to a settlement. This was then used to make me settle for less money in the property side.
I gotta dhs document with all the second rounds of accusations not just from my daughter's mother.... But this time my daughter. IE... She was coached, coaxed, and I daresay at times bullied by her mother to say these things.
But the document itself even says the consensus was that these were all false. Hence why it still never went to court.
My kids' mom kidnapped my kids in 2020 she tried to take me to court in Florida for domestic violence but due to lack of evidence it was dropped the lack of evidence was her telling the judge that I'm not violent towards women or children there's no threat or reason to fear me as in I would never kidnapped or abducted children that case was thrown out Ohio gets Court the day before my court date I made a stupid decision getting drunk on an empty stomach and it cost me my custody because my kids' mom used the picture of me on a gurney claiming it was because of a suicide attempt which is not what was happening I was just getting drunk the day before so I'd go to sleep early the night before wake up early so that way I wouldn't I'd be able to beat up in time for court and everything because it's just a stupid drunk decision but because of it I'm now paying for the price my paid lawyer told me to shush in court never really got to defend myself as I sat there and watched the magistrate and my paid lawyer help the mother provide false information I have videos of the phone calls I was court ordered that I only get like 3 minutes tops my son wants to see me but they won't let him recorded on one of my recorded phone calls I was threatened if I were to ever come see my kids I would get shot
29 year veteran of the silver bullet. And I live to tell the tale. 10 separate attempts at CLETS DVRO's. 1994-1998 7 attempts. All exparte of course and all false. The only one that stuck was the last one in 1998 which was issued while I was located over 3,000 miles away. How? Never served, never appeared - proof of service forged while I was a long way away. Fought 15 years 50/50 until mom left the State of CA to IL against court orders. 2008 a third party claim that I was going to "kill my son's", long trial and $40,000 later I beat it. Kept my boys 50/50. 2015 "I said unkind words, ended up having my front door kicked down and held at gunpoint. 18 police officers descended. Went to trial and judge SEVERELY admonished her and denied DVRO with prejudice. Same woman in 2019 called police after I spent the night in my home and gave her a consentual hug goodbye. It was a setup, I received a call from the cops 5 hours later after I had traveled back to my job 300 miles away. Court withheld my daughter from me for 18 months while I pushed for trial. Eventually made a due process claim and it was dismissed without prejudice. Too many violations of civil rights to count and that last one violated collateral estoppel. The entire system is a scam.
Hey Eric, false accusations of D.V. and sexual molested our daughter, she was checked twice, unfounded both time, ex still told any and everyone it was true
In 2019, I filed for divorce as the petitioner. I have since been charged 7 different times with Misdemeanors all from the same prosecutor and all at the urging of my ex wife and her attorneys. I also endured 2 CPS investigations and was cleared and or acquitted by jury trial.
I eventually won 50/50 joint legal and physical custody of our 3 minor children.
I now have court/legal documents showcasing perjury including a motion for contempt where relief was GRANTED.
You were granted relief for her perjury and contempt of court? Wow! You might be the only one! Congrats! I was ignored when I tried to get her arrested for filing a false polic report and contempt of court.
I was in a 2.5 year custody battle. My son got injured during a tantrum. Dhs got involved and because they felt like it, they decided to accuse me of beating him. To put the cherry on top. I was criminally charged and put in a position that I had the choice of going to trial and proving my innocence and losing my son, or Pleading guilty and getting my son back at some point. However the state and dhs did not honor the agreement and instead using it as fire power against me. They even threatened my sons mom at the time that if she didn't dump me, they would take our son and we'd never see him again.
Only after dhs case were his mom and I able to come back and repair our friendship and get closure. Because of what dhs did. My son is behind in development and has behavior problems. Tho his mom and I are now with 2 different people, we co parent very well. Her and I have worked so hard to get back on a friendship level. I am deeply sorry to whoever has to go and suffer like my family has.
Falsely accused and CPS investigated then instantly dismissed and closed the case; however, the ex-wife continuously brought up and used the false allegations against me during court proceedings for the next four years! She continuously used her false allegations like it was the truth.
I went through 11 allegations of physcial and psychological abuse of my kids in 12 years. Everything from me not wanting to overmedicate our kids for a slight fever and that being abuse to supposedly owning a pistol and wanting to shoot their mother when neither I or my parents have never had guns to my dad getting frustrated with my daughter and telling her through a closed door-he did not go into the bathroom-to stop splashing so much; that was "psychological abuse".
The worst one was my first overnigjt visit with my kids after my separation. My daugher was 4 and a half and someone got a scrape on her stomach. As kids do. However the story that got reported to the social worker was I got mad and scratched her becauae she wouldnt take a nap! It was utterly ridiculous!
And every time child protective services would call super serious and say Mr Dean there is an allegation of X... What is your vesion of events? And every time I would ask them when the persecution would stop. They could never say.
Then 12 years into our separation my ex lost her temper and proceeded to hit, pinch and pull out daughters hair.-My daughter disrespected her and called her a hypocrite.-However here child protective services refused to open a case! They said that since it didn't leave a bruise it was "discipline". I tried to get it clasified under psychological abuse but they said they needed to hear from our daughters therapist firsthand. Knowing how ridiculous they are her therapsit refused to even talk to them.
I went through over 43+ false allegations. Spent over $700,000 and 11-12 years in family court. Ive been out 1 1/2 years now and have joint custody and no issues since. I also pay child support to a multi-millionaire. I have a bill in the Texas Capitol called "Time Taken Time Back" SB718. Its been a unanimous vote and no opposition. This bill will stop most of the false allegations being used. I was never arrested, jailed or convicted for any of these false accusations.
Robert, I am curious.. with your time taken time back bill, how does it work for extended periods of not seeing your child? For example, if you have not seen your kid for 6 or 12 months due to false allegations...does the father then get 6 or 12 months of sole custody to make up for the time? Or does the father get primary custody over a period of 2 to 3 years to make up for that time over all? And if the father than gets so much extra time that he becomes the primary custodial parent, for at least a period of time, would that impact child support, at least for the period where he becomes the primary custodial parent?
However many days you missed you get all of them back. Also same kind of days. If you missed your x-mas. She will miss her's and so you will get 2 in a row.
It has been a horrific nightmare.
Elliot, I saw the news. 100 years. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Thank you. The sentencing was a joke. The courtroom was packed with supporters wearing white standing with our son, John David Cunningham. The DA belittled and disparaged them, even though they have known John David and his story and some were at the trial. Now he can move forward with motion for new trial and appeal.
My ex filed a false claim of custodial interference with the police. The police subjected me to false arrest, all charges were dropped when it was made clear to the prosecutor that I was a custodial parent and she lied. I sued her for my legal fees in small claims court and won.
Hello, I've had a 2+ year battle in family court. I spoke with you while in Michigan previously. My ex made false claims against me, almost costing me everything. I have since regained some ground, but am still suffering from the fallout.
Our son John David is an alienated dad who went through false allegations and 199 motions in Family Court and the Judge heard all the evidence and ruled he gets to see his children. facing. Then the DA, with no other evidence files 13 counts of Criminal Charges against him of Rape and Sexual Abuse orchestrated by the wife and ex mother in-law. Unbelievably a jury found him guilty in December and he is now facing 250 years in prison for criminal convictions from his Silver Bullet Divorce. This should never have gone to Trial. It is unbelievable and makes no sense how the jury could return with a Guilty verdict. We need to your help to stand with him and help get his life and his children back. This is an outrageous injustice that cannot be tolerated. Please help us expose John David's story. I have detailed timelines and a video interview with more information. I know this may challenge your narrative above, but you need to look at his story.
I Googled the stories of Connie and your son. I am so sorry about the insanity you have to deal with. I am at a loss for words.
Thank you. If you would like to get a timeline of the story through the trial in December, please let me know and I can email it to you.
Did you see my interview on the Blood Money Podcast? I also covers a lot of the details.
I will look up the blood money podcast. Do you already have plan B, C, and D to try to undo your son's conviction?
Here is a link to the podcast.
https://rumble.com/v2dx60s-blood-money-episode-59-connie-reguli-is-a-criminal-a-fraudster-and-a-destro.html
Thanks for the link. I watched. I am beside myself. I am so sorry.
Yes, he has to file an appeal, which cannot happen until after sentencing. There are several paths to correct this injustice.
I wrote down my story in the "tell us your story" section. In summary, I was the victim of domestic violence. It was confirmed by our couples counselors and the forensic evaluator. But the day I moved out, the mother lied to the police and accused me of assault. I was arrested and the chargers were dropped 4 months later. But the mother used it to get primary custody from the court for over 3 years. After a full trial, where I testified for 28 hours about reality, the final court order concluded that she was the perpetrator of domestic violence and that she lied about being the victim of domestic violence. And then I was awarded custody.
Eric, I understand that you will have many stories to choose from. And I can see that many people have had worse experiences than I did. So if you want to include my story, I will help you to do so. But if it doesn't fit into your overall vision for the project, that's OK too. Thanks for doing this!
I also want to add, many practitioners in the family court system ignore fathers and their complaints, saying that "the father is only complaining because he lost". And then they write us off. Well, I won my custody case. And as a "winner", I can tell everybody that the family court system is broken, biased, incompetent, and in need of serious overhaul. So we can throw away that "sore loser's" narrative. I have a laundry list of process changes that the court needs in order to become an organization that actually helps families.
we were married for 10 years. the ex made her 1st false allegation against me in June 2016, the day after I caught her with another man in our marital home. she dropped the restraining order when she got me removed from our home and paying her $50k/year in support.
3 months later she orchestrated the 1st (of 20+) child abuse and molestation claims against me with NJ DCP&P. each complaint and investigation has been closed as unfounded.
the number of complaints the ex has orchestrated against me with New Jersey child services has become so alarming that NJ Department of Children and Families, the parent organization of NJ DCP&P, invited me to join a committee of fathers to help reshape policy.
oh, and the four reunification therapists the ex has asked the court to have ordered on to our case to work with our family have each identified her as "the problem" .
currently waiting for a date from the court to begin our next custody trial.
In the middle of a divorce, she invited me over we were still silver. At this point accuse me of hitting her called. The cops went on trial she lied on the stand. I was proven innocent I was uninvited from weddings, friends parties lost family members over these acquisitions, then the judge in the middle of the divorce proceedings gave her everything I don’t even get my kids on Christmas morning because domestic violence was involved. Only happened after she accuse me of doing drugs and me having to get hair test. I’ve never once had drug issue in my life she knew this, but tried to because the only way to get a unfair divorce is domestic violence or drug abuse, and neither worked but she still got the benefits of all of it. I don’t even get my kids Christmas morning, even though I was proven innocent.
Mine were definitely what I would call soft allegations. Had a full friend of the court investigation with veiled accusations but nothing solid, just enough to make me fear the so called “evidence” they were holding back on me until I agreed to a settlement. This was then used to make me settle for less money in the property side.
I gotta dhs document with all the second rounds of accusations not just from my daughter's mother.... But this time my daughter. IE... She was coached, coaxed, and I daresay at times bullied by her mother to say these things.
But the document itself even says the consensus was that these were all false. Hence why it still never went to court.
It's the worst stalemate a person can be in.
My kids' mom kidnapped my kids in 2020 she tried to take me to court in Florida for domestic violence but due to lack of evidence it was dropped the lack of evidence was her telling the judge that I'm not violent towards women or children there's no threat or reason to fear me as in I would never kidnapped or abducted children that case was thrown out Ohio gets Court the day before my court date I made a stupid decision getting drunk on an empty stomach and it cost me my custody because my kids' mom used the picture of me on a gurney claiming it was because of a suicide attempt which is not what was happening I was just getting drunk the day before so I'd go to sleep early the night before wake up early so that way I wouldn't I'd be able to beat up in time for court and everything because it's just a stupid drunk decision but because of it I'm now paying for the price my paid lawyer told me to shush in court never really got to defend myself as I sat there and watched the magistrate and my paid lawyer help the mother provide false information I have videos of the phone calls I was court ordered that I only get like 3 minutes tops my son wants to see me but they won't let him recorded on one of my recorded phone calls I was threatened if I were to ever come see my kids I would get shot
29 year veteran of the silver bullet. And I live to tell the tale. 10 separate attempts at CLETS DVRO's. 1994-1998 7 attempts. All exparte of course and all false. The only one that stuck was the last one in 1998 which was issued while I was located over 3,000 miles away. How? Never served, never appeared - proof of service forged while I was a long way away. Fought 15 years 50/50 until mom left the State of CA to IL against court orders. 2008 a third party claim that I was going to "kill my son's", long trial and $40,000 later I beat it. Kept my boys 50/50. 2015 "I said unkind words, ended up having my front door kicked down and held at gunpoint. 18 police officers descended. Went to trial and judge SEVERELY admonished her and denied DVRO with prejudice. Same woman in 2019 called police after I spent the night in my home and gave her a consentual hug goodbye. It was a setup, I received a call from the cops 5 hours later after I had traveled back to my job 300 miles away. Court withheld my daughter from me for 18 months while I pushed for trial. Eventually made a due process claim and it was dismissed without prejudice. Too many violations of civil rights to count and that last one violated collateral estoppel. The entire system is a scam.
Hey Eric, false accusations of D.V. and sexual molested our daughter, she was checked twice, unfounded both time, ex still told any and everyone it was true
In 2019, I filed for divorce as the petitioner. I have since been charged 7 different times with Misdemeanors all from the same prosecutor and all at the urging of my ex wife and her attorneys. I also endured 2 CPS investigations and was cleared and or acquitted by jury trial.
I eventually won 50/50 joint legal and physical custody of our 3 minor children.
I now have court/legal documents showcasing perjury including a motion for contempt where relief was GRANTED.
You were granted relief for her perjury and contempt of court? Wow! You might be the only one! Congrats! I was ignored when I tried to get her arrested for filing a false polic report and contempt of court.
I was accused of groping my daughter, physically hitting her, and a few other accusations. All were proven unfounded in cps, and in court.
You know my story, let me know where I can help....
I was in a 2.5 year custody battle. My son got injured during a tantrum. Dhs got involved and because they felt like it, they decided to accuse me of beating him. To put the cherry on top. I was criminally charged and put in a position that I had the choice of going to trial and proving my innocence and losing my son, or Pleading guilty and getting my son back at some point. However the state and dhs did not honor the agreement and instead using it as fire power against me. They even threatened my sons mom at the time that if she didn't dump me, they would take our son and we'd never see him again.
Only after dhs case were his mom and I able to come back and repair our friendship and get closure. Because of what dhs did. My son is behind in development and has behavior problems. Tho his mom and I are now with 2 different people, we co parent very well. Her and I have worked so hard to get back on a friendship level. I am deeply sorry to whoever has to go and suffer like my family has.
Falsely accused and CPS investigated then instantly dismissed and closed the case; however, the ex-wife continuously brought up and used the false allegations against me during court proceedings for the next four years! She continuously used her false allegations like it was the truth.
I went through 11 allegations of physcial and psychological abuse of my kids in 12 years. Everything from me not wanting to overmedicate our kids for a slight fever and that being abuse to supposedly owning a pistol and wanting to shoot their mother when neither I or my parents have never had guns to my dad getting frustrated with my daughter and telling her through a closed door-he did not go into the bathroom-to stop splashing so much; that was "psychological abuse".
The worst one was my first overnigjt visit with my kids after my separation. My daugher was 4 and a half and someone got a scrape on her stomach. As kids do. However the story that got reported to the social worker was I got mad and scratched her becauae she wouldnt take a nap! It was utterly ridiculous!
And every time child protective services would call super serious and say Mr Dean there is an allegation of X... What is your vesion of events? And every time I would ask them when the persecution would stop. They could never say.
Then 12 years into our separation my ex lost her temper and proceeded to hit, pinch and pull out daughters hair.-My daughter disrespected her and called her a hypocrite.-However here child protective services refused to open a case! They said that since it didn't leave a bruise it was "discipline". I tried to get it clasified under psychological abuse but they said they needed to hear from our daughters therapist firsthand. Knowing how ridiculous they are her therapsit refused to even talk to them.